Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Your kidding right?

Are you still not over this? You're still talking about it?

I'll never be over it. How could I ever forget about the sweetest angel I ever had the pleasure of growing in my belly for 41 weeks. She will be in our hearts forever. Talking about it, mentioning her name, that is how I keep her memory alive. She gave our family many gifts, especially that life is too short to be unhappy, to be putting your life on hold, to be waiting for {something} before you start living your life. We are forever grateful to Lola for what she gave us. So, no, I'll never be over it, I'll never forget, I'll never stop talking about her.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Where do these people live? Thought i'd pay them a visit and give em a slap upside the head and then let them know how ignorant, selfish, and repulsive they are...ugghhhhh i feel sick.... arseholes Kris, ARSEHOLES!!... and that's being polite ; )

Keep doing what your doing you good thing, screw them!

And may Lola's gifts keep on giving.
XXL

Sarah. Splish Splash Designs said...

What idiots! Of course you will never be over losing your precious daughter.

Lola's memory will be kept alive by you talking about her. Keep doing it :)

Melissa said...

Some people really surprise you hey. I swear they don't have a filter or feelings for that matter at times...

Lola will Never be forgotten.. xxxxx

melissa said...

Of course you will never be 'over it'. How could you and why should you?

Of course you are still talking about Lola. She is your daughter.

I am so sorry you have people in your life who do not understand that. xx

Maggie said...

Yes, I think I'll pay them a visit as well!

You'll never be "over it" and of course you will still talk about her. She's your daughter and always will be. (((HUGS)))

Kim said...

Some people are just idiots! I don't know why anyone would say something so insensitive and stupid. I hope you told them where to go and wiped them from your lives.

Think about the rest of us around you that are always thinking of Lola instead. xoxo

Malory said...

I also wonder if people are thinking this. I wonder if they are sick of hearing me talk about Janessa's death. If they are wondering why I'm not over it yet. I never will...I wonder why they don't know that.

Anonymous said...

Oh My God!! Please tell me this is a cruel joke and someone did not say this to you!!!!!! No one who knows you and Bren and the kids will ever be over this either hon, Lola has touched everyone in ways that no one expected, but will never forget. You hold strong to your memories and sound her name to the world. I do, and proudly, I love all my nieces and nephews and will boast about them to anyone who will listen. I'm so sorry someone has been so insensitive x

Puggie said...

Lola is your daughter. Of course you're thinking and talking about her! How very odd that someone would think otherwise.

Sounds like a mouth running, brain not in gear moment...