Thankyou for the lovely suggestions. With a little encouragement I have decided to go with this idea that was given to me by Amy "What about family / friends / associates send you a photo with Lola's name in it? Just everyday people doing everyday things but showing that they're thinking of Lola and your family. E.g. if I was hanging out the washing I could send a pic of pegs spelling out her name? Or if I was making bread I could send you a pic of the floured bench with 'Lola' written in the flour?"
The photographer Rachel Richter came up with a similar idea, you can see the photo's by doing a search on facebook of 'I'm praying for you Beau'.
Can you please help me by emailing me a photo taken by you that I can use on the 4th October as a way to include Lola on this special (for us) day? Email me your photo at firstname.lastname@example.org. Can you also please let me know if you mind your photo being posted on this blog or on facebook? If you want to contribute a photo can you please do so by the 2nd of October so I can get it printed out for Sunday.
Thankyou everybody, so much xxx
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